I got dropped off in town with my camera bag. My suitcase was taken to store over at Edwin + JP's place in town so I wouldn't have to climb the daring hill back to wedding headquarters when it was time for me to catch the bus. It was like a tiny downtown Vancouver, except cobblestones, sometimes with questionable liquid that made me cringe to roll my baggage over. I spent the first while going through the first few shops, taking careful notes of things I wanted to get before deciding what to splurge on. I had no checked baggage and therefor very limited space in my camera backpack and carry-on sized roller suitcase. My predominant obsession was the stuffies. Like, I don't even want to post them because I am so greedy, I don't want anyone else to have them. If I had the choice, I would have bought every single last one in Mexico. Also, I kind of have plans to just start making my own… I also was tempted 100 times to buy the pom-poms but I kept reminding myself of the 10 POM POM DIYS I already had on Pinterest.
I trekked down to the beach in between my indecisive stuffies anxiety. I had whizzed by the beach on the back of the golf cart on the way to the wedding the previous day and was determined to check it out. It ended up being an overcast day despite the initial sunny morning, so not quite the hot beach I was hoping for. Still, it was beautiful. Super crazy crowded but really so beautiful. Lots of people catching waves, lots of families just playing in the surf. I wished countless times that my fam could be with me to soak in all of this excitement and beauty, to run into the waves with my kids and laugh our butts off, to see whether Malcolm would love or be terrified of the waves, to see Kevin relaxed and enjoying himself for once in his life... but with each wish, I reminded myself to let go and to enjoy the freedom of being on my own, on my own schedule, on my own terms, JUST ME. It was almost an out of body experience not being with the family for 5 days straight. I have never done that in all the time that I have children. And even before having children, I went only as far as Vegas a couple of times with Kevin and then to Cuba for our Honeymoon. It was definitely a deep and very holy breath of fresh air for me after 7 years of motherhood.
I retreated from the beach and just happened to run into Jade who taught me how to haggle. I was impressed with her haggling and needed to see it in action because I am a PUSSY. By the end of the day, I left with a mermaid, a unicorn, a giraffe, a crocodile and a donkey. I got a great deal on the unicorn, but ripped on the donkey + crocodile from another table because I had gone to the table 3 times and it was pretty clear that I was in love with them! Dude knew the Asian with the black hat would be coming back, he saw the suffering in her soul, that she could not live without his crocodile + donkey hahaha!